Pleasuring Yourself and Then Pleasuring Others
Now that I have your attention, let me explain what is meant by this it is not where your mind took you what I am speaking about here is taking care of yourself. From looking good, to feeling good physically and emotionally, the finding joy in what you do I am speaking about finding what pleasures you and what brings about your best.
What are you doing to live a joyful life. The following is a list of 10 things to do to pleasure yourself and the pleasur others.
10: Spend Quiet Time in Nature
9: Tell Someone They Are Special
8: Help a Charity
7: Keep a Gratitude Journal
6: Surround Yourself With Positive Upbeat People
5: Listen to Uplifting Music
4: Read Uplifting Books
3: Do a Random Act of Senseless Kindness
2: Do Something Nice For Your Self, like getting a massage, a hair cut, going to the movies, etc…
1: Praise GOD!!!!!!
Finding Pleasure In All That You Do
I am asked many times, JDOGG How is it you find pleasure in almost everything you do? The answer is simple I put a smile on my face and give thanks for the opportunity to get to do things. I have found that since I shifted from I have to to I get to that I derive more pleasure out of things. I take a deep breath and find the good in the procees even when paying bills as I breathe and say thank you GOD for providing mw withe the source to attract money and pay these bills. I also explain that I come from a heart cenetered place where I do things from my heart and thus I feel good about the tasks that I have undertaken. In many ways it is in the idea that when I please myslef I please others. In some cases it is as simple as sharing a smile and making someone’s day.
Today we are granted an opportunity to choose where our pleasure will come from. In many cases the pleasure comes from within by simply being grateful for the oportunity to look beyond what we see in the forground and realizing the background that encompasses the wide vast universe that delivers pleasure to us.
Imagine this scene and how many react oh no it snowed and everything is wet. Now lets change that and say How beautiful it is to have a quiet peaceful place to sit after I clear the bench. This is a way to derive pleasure from what many may find unpleasant. When we look at things in a differnt perspective we can find joy and pleasure in all we do.
In finding pleasure in all you do you will enjoy the fruit of spirit.
Feeling Good
Many state they want to feel good and ask me, JDOGG How do I begin to feel good: I answer:
1: You must be pleased with who you are becoming
2: Show yourself love and remember you are loved and deserve to be love
3: You have greatness inside of you so let it out
4: You bring joy to others through your being
5: You are special
Amy Barbera brings you much joy in her latest song Walking on The Stars. You can walk on the stars and pleasure yourself whil bringing pleasure to others.
Quotes Help Bring Pleasure To Your Life
Meditation is the process of understanding your own mind. – Jiddu Krishnamurti
Insist on yourself; never imitate. Your own gift you can present every moment with the cumulative force of a whole life’s cultivation; but of the adopted talent of another you have only an extemporaneous half possession… Do that which is assigned to you, and you cannot hope too much or dare too much. Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance
“Spiritual growth – or coming into this come of awareness – is allowing that which is unconscious to be come conscious. We are not speaking about religiosity. We’re talking about a real identity, which is a spiritual being. We’re here to unfold, to become more aware of that and allow that energy to be released. The love, the peace, the joy, the wisdom, the harmony, these are all qualities of the spirit that are seeking to express through us and so as we become more aware of that, our life is filled with that kind of vibration, that kind of feeling tone. So to grow spiritually is to become aware of Who you Really Are.” Rev. Michael Beckwith
You are a child of the Universe, no less than the trees and the stars; You have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe Is unfolding as it should.” “Desiderata”,Max Ehrmann
“The promise of God is that you are His son. Her offspring. Its Likeness. His equal. For if you are God’s equal, that means nothing is being done to you – and all things are created by you. There can be no more victims and no more villains — only outcomes of your thought about a thing.” Neale Donald Walsch
There are many great sources available for you to pleasure yourself and to bring pleasur to others. As you continue to grow in joy be a shining light to others.
A fun video to bring joy to your day. Be that beacon of hope to others as you find pleasure in your life.